The arrival of spring is inspiring and holds endless opportunities. Now is the time to begin to plan for all those wonderful events. In fact, many families are planning for the greatest occasions they have only dreamed of. Weddings, infant christenings, anniversaries, graduations and special birthdays are often celebrated. The time honored tradition of sending invitations will initiate the celebration as well as set the tone. As recipients, how do we respond with the most consideration?
As you begin to receive invitations remember to be concerned for those extending the invitation and the honoree. It is a privilege to be included in another’s special occasion. Consider your responsibilities quickly and realistically. Make your decision and respond, either accepting or declining. Your response should be with the response card provided. If a card is not provided be certain to communicate by mail on your own personal stationary. Responding the day you receive the invitation is a good standard to live by. Graciously communicate to the host your appreciation and your response. Remember to respond according to the details of the invitation, the number of guests named on the invitation, if children are included and items to bring. Never add a quest to your response card unless you are invited to do so. If you plan to attend begin now to secure arrangements, such as proper attire, a trusted babysitter, special transportation, work and school schedules, purchasing a gift and meal planning may be required for the uniqueness of the day. Making these arrangements and following through will protect relationships and secure a pleasurable time for everyone.
-Patricia